Fall Trends 2010: What (Not) to Wear

When the seasons change, the inevitable fashion question arises… what are the hot or must-have trends this year? As an image consultant it’s part of my job to know those trends. But I don’t live and die by trends, and I don’t recommend that approach to my clients.

With that in mind, here’s a list of seven trends that are popular this fall, followed by my comments on how to – or whether you should – incorporate them into your wardrobe.

1. Camouflage/military clothing. Military-inspired garb has been popular for a few seasons and it’s as strong as ever this fall. The camouflage print works well on certain dresses, shirts, pants and hats. But camouflage leggings? I guess if you want to make your legs ‘disappear’ this is a trend for you. I say a little camo goes a long way, so use it sparingly.

2. Faux fur. Several designers have faux fur jackets and vests in their fall collections. Some of it looks good, in shades of gray and brown. But a faux fur vest with long white strands looks like you were competing on Project Runway and had to make a garment from shag carpet remnants. (Note: I recently saw a department store with the faux fur and camouflage clothing displayed side by side. I could not tell if it was an unfortunate coincidence, or a clever inside joke asking shoppers to choose if they want to be the ‘hunter’ or the ‘prey.’)

3. Hats and scarves for men. Duh. It’s fall. But these particular hats and scarves are not just utilitarian. They take a big cue from the television show Mad Men, adding a specific design aesthetic to transform what could be boring into something of which even the sartorially splendid Don Draper would approve.

4. Aviator and cat-eye sunglasses. Yes, you still need to protect your eyes in fall/winter. Again evoking the Mad Men era, sunglasses in styles from the 50s and 60s are very popular. But these styles are not flattering on everyone. Depending on the shape of your face, it may be best to skip this trend and stick with what looks good on you.

5. Statement necklace or ring. Oversized jewelry – such as necklaces that form a ‘collar’ and giant flower-shaped rings – will continue to be popular. If you are tall or have a large frame, these items may work for you. But be careful if you are petite. It’s never a good idea to wear a necklace that’s bigger than your head or a flower ring that bellows ‘Feed me, Seymour!’

6. Nude-colored fashions. A favorite of fashionistas like Jennifer Lopez and Mariah Carey, the popular color has become a staple on the red carpet and can be found in everyday wear including dresses, blouses and slacks. Frankly, I find it boring and uninspired. How boring? It makes beige look exciting. The exception is nude-colored shoes because they make the legs look longer by not ‘chopping’ them off at the feet. FYI… everyone’s ‘nude’ is different; if your skin is chocolate brown, then your nude shoes should be chocolate brown.

7. Camel-colored garments. This is a classic color that works well on men and women. (I know you’re thinking, ‘What’s the difference between camel and beige?’ The two are worlds apart!) A camel-colored wool coat (pictured) in a classic style will serve you well for years to come. Camel looks elegant with charcoal, black, red, dark brown, navy and even winter white.

Instead of blindly following trends, you should explore ‘what’s hot’ and decide which ones, if any, work with your personality, profession, and body type. If a trend works... great. If it does not… just let it pass and wait for the next one!

Save Money… Not Clothes

It’s there. Way in the back of your closet. Price tag still intact. Waiting patiently to be rescued from limbo. It’s The Dress. Or maybe it’s The Coat. Or is it The Shoes?

You wanted this item because you loved how it looked on you and the way it made you feel. But shortly after you bought it, you declared it was much too nice to wear on just a ‘normal’ day. Oh, no. This item deserved to be saved for a very special occasion.

That was a year ago. Or was it two years ago? So, just how special is the occasion you are expecting? An invitation to Vanity Fair's Oscar party? A State Dinner at The White House? Tea at Buckingham Palace? A private audience with the Pope? A date with George Clooney?

And if/when this momentous occasion eventually arrives, will the clothes you’re saving even still be in style?

I’ve said it before, but it's worth repeating – life is too short to spend it wearing ugly clothes. Life also is too short to ‘save’ clothes for a special occasion. (We should save money, not clothes. Beautiful clothes should be worn – often!)

Make every day special. Rip off the price tag and wear that gorgeous dress or those killer shoes. And when someone asks, ‘What’s the occasion?’ ... just smile and say, ‘It’s Tuesday!’

Being 'Grown-up' is More than Your Age

Last week I was shopping with a client who is gearing up for her 40th birthday. She wants to revamp her wardrobe to be more age appropriate, while remaining true to her youthful energy and outgoing personality. No problem!

However, in addition to incorporating ‘grown-up clothes’ she wants to adopt more grown-up behaviors, such as sending handwritten thank-you notes. This will take a little longer, but her goal is attainable and it made me think about a few other grown-up behaviors and style choices to consider.

Here are 10 things you can try at any age:

1. Be kind to waiters. Why? First, it’s just good form to be nice to anyone who is serving you. Second, it’s smart. Not only is this person in charge of your food, you are about to hand over your debit/credit card to him or her. Think about it. (And when you get good service, leave a generous tip – at least 18 percent.)

2. Do not chew gum in public. Why? Ever seen Britney Spears struggle through an interview while chomping on a gob of Big Red? Yikes. Restrict your gum chewing to long road trips or if you’re working around the house. If you’re in public and need to freshen your breath, reach for a mint.

3. Leggings and tights are not pants. No matter how thin or shapely, a grown woman should not wear leggings or tights as a substitute for pants. I know Audrey Hepburn made it look chic – but she was Audrey Hepburn. Just put on a pair of well-fitting pants or jeans.

4. A wireless earpiece is not a fashion accessory. An earpiece is fine for hands-free driving or if your job requires endless phone calls. But walking through the park or grocery shopping with that object sprouting from your ear says you are too attached to your phone. Literally.

5. Sunglasses are to protect your eyes from the sun. When you enter a building, remove your sunglasses and put them in your pocket/purse. Wearing sunglasses on top of your head? Only if you don’t have a pocket or purse.

6. Frosted lipstick is for little girls. On a grown woman, frosted lipstick looks like you just ate a Krispy Kreme doughnut, and you didn’t have a napkin to wipe your mouth. Stick with your favorite shade of red.

7. Grown men should only wear a team jersey on game day (or if you have just been drafted by the team). Otherwise, wear a real shirt – with a collar.

8. It’s okay to ignore a fashion trend. Just because a trend is in every store and on every magazine cover, you do not have to follow the herd. Every trend does not work for every person. Being a grown-up includes knowing when a trend doesn’t look good on you.

9. RSVP and go. When the invitation says ‘RSVP,’ you should reply as soon as possible and let the host know whether you plan to attend. (Don’t wait until the last minute… thinking you’ll get a better offer.) The host needs to know who’s coming, in order to determine how much food and drink to buy. And if you say you will attend – then go. It is rude to be a no-show unless you have a valid reason.

10. Send a handwritten thank-you note. (My client is right about this.) Whether following up on a job interview, saying thanks for a dinner party invitation, or acknowledging a graduation/wedding/baby shower gift… the reasons to send a handwritten note are endless. It takes more effort than texting or instant messaging, but the recipient will remember that you took the time to do it.

This list is a lot to take on at once, so tackle one or two items at a time. Before you know it, you’ll be following the advice of Prince (and parents around the globe) to 'Act your age... not your shoe size!'

Wardrobe Basics for Women and Men

Question:

I usually buy my clothes at consignment stores because this is both cheaper and “greener” than the mall. Therefore, I have lots of quirky, cool things I love in my wardrobe, but not many basics. So here’s my question: What are the basics I need to add that can complement my consignment-quirky wardrobe?

--submitted by M.L.


Hello M.L.,

Thanks for your question.

This is a good problem to have. I find it easier to add the necessary basics to a collection of quirky and cool clothes than to inject whimsy/personality into a closet full of basics. So, in my book, you are ahead of the game!

To start, think of your wardrobe as a bite of cake with a good balance of frosting and cake. The ‘frosting’ is your accessories, including the quirky or cool items you already have. The ‘cake’ is your wardrobe basics – shirts/blouses, slacks/skirts, dresses – that you wear regularly. Right now you have a lot of frosting, and you need more cake.

The particular basics you need (and how many) will be determined by several factors, including your occupation and your company’s dress code. If you work from home and rarely have face-to-face meetings, you may not require an extensive wardrobe. Regardless, there are key garments that a well-dressed person should have in their closet when the need arrives. My recommendations are below.

Wardrobe basics for women:

-Tailored dress slacks in black and gray (and perhaps in taupe and navy).
-Skirts in the same colors. If you never wear skirts, add more slacks.
-Tailored blazer that you can wear with jeans, a skirt, or slacks.
-Dark wash jeans.
-Day dress. (Try a wrap style or coat-dress style, depending on your
preference and body type.)
-White cotton blouse.
-Black turtleneck.
-Woman’s tee-shirts (v-neck or scoop neck and colors depend on your preference).
-Cocktail or ‘little black dress.’

Wardrobe basics for men:

-Two-piece suit in charcoal or navy.
-Sport coat.
-Blue dress shirt.
-White dress shirt.
-Dark wash jeans.
-Flat front khaki pants.
-Polo shirts or your preferred style of casual shirt with a collar.
-Tuxedo. (Rent only if you’re a groomsman and all tuxedos must match.)

These lists do not include shoes, belts, coats or the various accessories you will need to complete your look. However, the items listed provide a good foundation to get you on your way!

How to Be Warm and Stylish in Winter

Question:
How can I dress warmly and with style in the winter time in a casual/business casual office environment? My solution is always to put on as many layers as possible, which rarely translates into a stylish look. Any ideas?
-submitted by L. E., Atlanta, GA


Thanks for your question, L.E.

Dressing for winter weather often pits style against comfort, making us wonder if it’s possible to stay warm without looking like Kenny from South Park. But with a little planning you can be both warm and stylish.

Here are three things to consider:

1. Multiple Layers
2. Winter Fabrics
3. Color Coordination

Multiple Layers. What you wear underneath and on top of your ‘outfit’ will play a big part in keeping you warm. Let’s start with what you’ll wear underneath.

For women, a pair of tights – worn under slacks or the right skirt/dress – instantly adds a layer of warmth without adding bulk. If you're wearing jeans or slacks, consider thermals. (For men, wearing thermals under jeans or even under a suit is an easy way to add a layer of warmth.) Depending on the style of your blouse/shirt/sweater, you can wear a thermal shirt underneath.

Today’s thermals are often thin and lightweight, yet still provide much-needed warmth. No one will know you're wearing this hidden layer, so no need to feel self-conscious.

Your outer layer – a coat or jacket big enough to fit comfortably over the other layers – has to work very hard. It should be able to withstand the elements and still look good. On the plus side, Southern winters generally are less harsh than winters in the Midwest or Northeast. Usually you can get by with a heavy wool coat (instead of the unattractive down-filled coats required for survival in harsher climates). A wool coat also allows you to inject a bit of style.

Winter Fabrics. By now your lightweight/summer clothes have been packed away for a few months. (Correct?) You should be wearing wool, flannel, corduroy and other fabrics known for their warmth. Pullover sweaters or cardigans made of merino wool or cashmere look good, do not add much bulk, and are quite warm. Wool suits, slacks and skirts should be staples in your winter wardrobe. And don’t forget wool socks to keep your feet from becoming blocks of ice.

Color Coordination. Your winter attire won’t be complete without gloves, a scarf and a warm hat. If you select your gloves/scarf/hat in a single color or shades of the same color, you're well on your way to creating a pulled-together look.

While everyone else may look like they just threw on a random collection of winter clothes, you will look like the stylish person you were meant to be!