Try new things, but don't go crazy!

When it comes to my personal style, I am very confident regarding what works and doesn't work for me. But to keep from getting in a fashion rut I will try new styles on occasion. One such instance was during a recent trip to Chicago to visit a friend (who happens to be a true fashionista).

While browsing a men's boutique, a military-style jacket caught my eye. This is not my usual style, but my friend encouraged me to try it on. I did, and to my surprise I looked pretty good in it... and not like a long-lost member of the Jackson Family! (What is it with their fascination with military garb?) She gave the jacket the nod of approval, so I said yes.

Well, I was on a roll now. "What else should I try?"

Having recently bought two pairs of jeans, I did not want or need more, but the 'sale' sign seemed to call my name. I quickly thumbed through the stacks and found my size in a style unlike the ones I just bought.

The jeans were black, with straight legs. Dare I say they were 'skinny' jeans?

My gut said no, but I was still floating because of my new jacket, so off to the dressing room I marched... salesman and fashionista friend in tow.

A few grunts later, I emerged from the dressing room. I already knew how I looked (because there was a mirror in the dressing room). But in keeping with the 'try new things' theme of the day, I had to see this experiment to its fruition.

The look on the faces of the salesman and my friend said it all: Oh. My. God!

The skinny jeans were so tight they made my legs look like sausage casings. And, when I turned to show the back side... well, let's just say that I could have been J-Lo's brother!

My fashionista friend slowly shook her head. Horrrified. The salesman, trying to put a positive spin on it, commented that I definitely would get attention if I wore the jeans. Tempting thought... but no. The skinny jeans went back on the shelf.

So, the lesson learned: Try new styles. See how today's trends look on you. But, in the end, remain true to yourself.

Don't get caught up with trends and lose your own style in the process.